eview of Islamic Laws on Doi’ menre’  in Bugis Traditional Marriage in Kolaka (Case Study in Ta’dai-Dai, Sabilambo District, Kolaka Regency)

By | April 29, 2018

Review of Islamic Laws on Doi’ menre’  in Bugis Traditional Marriage in Kolaka (Case Study in Ta’dai-Dai, Sabilambo District, Kolaka Regency)

ABSTRACT

Sari, Jusmita

This study aims to find out the position of conducting money (Doi’ menre’) in the Bugis customary marriage in addition, the study is intended to find out how the Islamic Law Review of Doi’ menre’  money in the Bugis customary marriage in Ta’ai-dai, Sabilambo District, Kolaka Regency.

Based on the results of the study, the Bugis community, especially in Kolaka, assumes that the giving of the Doi ‘menre is a mandatory money-giving tradition given by the men to the women whose function is used as the cost to carry out the marriage feast. The purpose is to give respect to the families of the parties women. The position of Doi’ menre’  in a custom marriage bugis is one of the conditions of preference, because if there is no Doi’ menre’  then there is no marriage. Islam does not govern the provisions of Doi ‘menre’ but the law is mubah. Islam does not prohibit the giving of Doi’ menre’  in customary marriage bugis because there is no postulate that explains it. The important thing is giving Dui ‘menre not contradicting syri’at and determining the value of Dui’ menre no element of compulsion, according to ability and ability of men.Adapun the impact of high determination of number Doi’ menre’  is void marriage, the relationship between both families can become tenuous, many men are reluctant to marry, many spinsters, silariang, can even be fatal for men because by deliberately impregnating women who want to marry.

Keywords: Islamic Law, Doi’ menre’ , Adat Bugis